Is there anything that your loved one has shared a desire to achieve? Such as: losing weight, writing a book, earning a PhD, or learning music?

Have you made efforts to support and encourage their aspirations? Many dreams are destroyed by a loved one or friend who says, “it can’t work.” “it is too expensive.” “You can’t just see it done.” Don’t be a dream-killer. Make efforts to speak supporting and encouraging words such as: “I know you can do it because you are the best at what you do.” “If you want to study we will finance it somehow.” “When you start exercising, I will be glad to join you.”

One supportive and motivating statement can be the difference between success and failure. Remember, we give life or death to people’s aspirations and goals by our words.

We hope the insights and tips we’ve given you in this email help improve your relationship.

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